While most brides focus on the finding the perfect dress for their wedding day, it is just as important to give some thought to the accessories. The first and foremost rule to wedding jewelry is not to overdo it. While it may be fun to get lost in the tulle and satin, it is not a time to load up on the “bling!” After all, a bride does not want to be upstaged by her jewelry on the big day. It is possible to pull off a royal look without looking like the queen’s closet has been raided.

Once a bride has settled on her dress, it is time to shop for the accessories. It might be tempting to purchase a necklace or earrings simply because they are beautiful, but a bride’s goal is to create an overall dazzling effect. This means shopping for pieces that will complement the dress. Avoid buying an item without first thinking about how it will fit harmoniously with the rest of the outfit.

Before choosing jewelry it is also good to know what type of metal will work best with a specific gown’s coloring. Gold embellishments clash with the bright white hue of a true white gown. Instead, consider pearls or platinum.

A diamond-white, or barely off-white colored gown matches well with gold and silver, as well as rose gold and pearl. For gowns in a candlelight shade choose gold jewelry to highlight the light white or yellow undertones.

The style of the dress also comes into play when choosing bridal jewelry. For instance, a strapless gown is ideal for a swept up hairdo, along with elegant chandelier earrings that will move and catch the light. For a sleek look, choose crystal or a touch of color. A sentimental bride might choose her birthstone or a lighter color from her bouquet. Diamond earrings are always a stylish choice as they frame a bride’s face beautifully in pictures.

For a bride with a more contemporary edge, it can be a challenge to create the right balance with a sleek, elegant dress that most often typifies a modern wedding. Traditional jewelry can provide a fun contrast with and soften the contemporary look of the dress. Pearls have a timeless elegance for both a traditional and contemporary bride. For an unusual statement, choose iridescent, blue-grey Tahitian pearls or petite pink ones. Teardrop-shape pearls are lovely set as drop earrings or as a pendant.

The bride looking for a vintage look has a variety of fun choices for self expression. Check jewelry stores and websites for unique pieces set with colored stones. Colored cubic zirconia is also a hip choice. Vintage jewelry is another favorite for this look – from Marcasite jewelry to bold beads. Or, for dresses with a vintage flair, create a contrast with modern-style jewelry.

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